Updated: Sep 11
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This article is about romantic ideas that lead to hot, steamy sex that will keep your marriage or relationship on a path to long-term success.
Think about all your friends and family who got divorced. They did boring activities together, or nothing at all, and constantly fought about minor issues.
They did not have the "sticky" glue to hold their marriage together, which is hot, steamy sex!
Romance is the bridge to sex. Romance turns on the mind's sex triggers, which give the vagina or penis the ability to cum or achieve orgasm!
Romantic events take simple life events and turn them into memories for a lifetime, whether on vacation, a weekend drive in the park, dinners, or a holiday.
Romance creates memories that you and your spouse will not forget decades after the event has occurred.
That's what you want out of life! Years or decades after the fact, memories that will make you smile.
The Step Before Romantic Ideas Can Be Implemented
The second part of being romantic is understanding how to make your spouse cum. Making your spouse cum needs to be solved before you can implement any romantic ideas with your spouse.
Everyone cums based on how they want to be touched or aroused. In addition, everyone wants to hear certain words while having sex, while others want a specific part of their body to be focused on while having sex.
Not knowing how your spouse cums will determine the primary root cause of why you stay together or get divorced.
Would you want to stay together in a relationship if your partner couldn't make you cum? The majority of people would say no.
So the first thing you need to do in the initial phase of a relationship, or in a relationship you want to save, is to ask your spouse the following questions (point-blank):
How do you make yourself cum when you masturbate?
What sex act made you cum or achieve orgasm in the past?
How do you want to be touched while we have sex?
What words do you want to hear while having sex?
What type of sex do you enjoy the most?
What kind of sex do you want in a full-blown sexual event?
How do you want to be licked while having oral sex?
Do you prefer a specific sexual position?
What sexual activities do you want first and last when we have sex together?
Believe me. Everyone cums differently, and everyone wants to cum or achieve orgasm. Your relationship will fall apart, or one of the partners will seek a new partner if you can't make your spouse cum or reach an orgasm. Affiliate Disclosure: We earn a small commission if you purchase through this link
Once you have solved the above bullet points, you can move on to being romantic, followed by hot, steamy sex to make your partner cum.
Romantic Ideas for the Bedroom
I think outside the box when it comes to romance. This romantic idea was for my spouse's birthday.
This romantic idea has four phases to it. In the first phase, you will need the following:
A picnic basket
A picnic blanket
An Italian dinner for two
A bottle of wine and two wine glasses.
You need to order and pick up an Italian dinner for two in the first phase. Then you need to take your spouse to a remote beach you can have dinner.
You will need to purchase a large cotton picnic blanket and a picnic basket. In addition, you will also need two wine glasses and a bottle of wine.
When I took my spouse to a romantic dinner for two on the beach, my spouse wore a lovely summer dress and high heels. She looked gorgeous!
Unaware of my spouse's plans for the dinner, I was romantic and thought I had the whole situation under control and planned out. I was going to give her the royal treatment for her birthday.
Unbeknownst to me, she decided not to wear any underwear to dinner. In addition, she had shaved her pussy in the shape of a heart. Then she started flashing me throughout dinner.
Well, my cock wanted to burst out of my 501 jeans!
I thought to myself, "Man, I better save my cum for dessert in the second phase of the night."
However, my spouse kept flashing me and sexually torturing me throughout dinner. I could hardly wait for sunset so that we could leave.
I thought I was going to die of "pussy thirst"! My cock was locked and loaded!
So I decided to eat her pussy and make her cum. Her girl cum was all over my face, and then she proceeded to lick the cum off my lips. God, I love that woman!
I made it off the beach without cumming my entire load! I should have gotten a medal of valor for holding out!
Well, I told her dessert would have to wait. She kept asking, "Ok. Where are we going? I told her it was a surprise. Just hold on tight. "
So we packed the picnic gear up, and I drove her to round two as soon as sunset came, and we gave each other a long romantic kiss.
You will need the following for round two to make this romantic event work:
Five bottles of Ky Liquid (4.5 oz. per bottle) water-based lubricant. It costs $13.99 a bottle.
A plastic drop cloth. The Husky Drop Cloth (9' x 12' in diameter) Last time I checked, it cost $2.97.
Four bags of rose pedals. Go to a flower shop and ask to get the left-over rose petals for free.
Four scented candles and matches.
Two crystal glasses, a bottle of wine, and strawberries.
Buy a couple of adult toys from an online store.
Rent a room at a nice hotel with an oversized bathtub that can hold two people. In addition, you will also need a shower.
Before picking your spouse up for dinner, go to the hotel room and place the rose petals on the bed. Then place the rest of the petals trailing from the bedroom through the hallway to the bathtub.
Put any adult toys (Affiliate Disclosure: We earn a small commission if you purchase through this link.) near the bathtub and the scented candles with matches in and around the bathtub. Affiliate Disclosure: We earn a small commission if you purchase through this link.
Pour the five bottles of KY Liquid into the bathtub, and then place the plastic drop cloth in front of the bathtub to the shower. KY Liquid is safe for vaginal or anal sex. In my time we used Crisco oil.
When you get to the hotel room, light the candles in the bathroom, go back to the bedroom, and start with some heavy kissing on the bed.
Take your clothes off, then proceed to the bathtub and get slippery while indulging in hot, steamy sex!
Then get out of the bathtub and walk safely to the shower. The gel will drip onto the plastic drop cloth, shower off, and give oral sex to your spouse.
Once you're done in the shower, proceed to the bedroom for round three: have a glass of wine and strawberries, watch a movie, and then curl up and fall asleep.
When you wake up the following day, have round four of hot, steamy sex.
Be sure to leave a $20 bill on the bed for the hotel room cleaning lady.
When I did this years ago, my spouse could not believe it, but it was a great birthday she never forgot!
Thirty-five years later, she still masturbates and cums, reliving her romantic birthday.
My Key Points Concerning Romantic Ideas
The critical point to remember is to completely understand how to make your spouse cum before implementing a romantic idea.
Because you don't want to implement a romantic event only for the whole night to fall short, all because you could not make your spouse cum or achieve orgasm.
And when it comes to romantic ideas, the more unorthodox or unusual the romantic event, the greater your sex will be, and the longer you'll remember it.
When you look back on your life, the only thing you'll remember is the romantic events and the steamy, hot sex you had decades earlier!
Everything else will be secondary!