Date Ideas for the Winter

Updated: Sep 11

A couple romantical kissing and eating snow flakes on a winter date


When looking for date ideas for winter, you need to think outside the box to succeed at winter romance.

So let’s take this step-by-step.

Step #1-Pick a Romantic Ski Resort Area

If you want to improve and enhance your relationship with your spouse, I recommend creating a mini-vacation in the dead of winter to create hot, steamy sex! {Affiliate Disclosure: We earn a small commission if you purchase through this link.}

First, you must pick a high-quality ski resort to create a super-hot romance in winter.

When evaluating ski resorts, I look for the following:

  • Does the ski resort have quality house rentals or a hotel and spa?

  • Does the ski resort have quality dinner restaurants?

  • Does the ski resort have any quality retail shops?

  • Does the ski resort have quality clubs to party at?

A winter resort is not just about skiing and playing in the snow; it’s about relaxing, having fun, having sex, and enjoying each other’s company as a couple.

I have been to many local ski resorts with serious problems regarding quality hotel rooms, dinner restaurants, shopping, and clubs.

If a ski resort with just a ski lift and a few hills to ski on, I do not recommend taking your spouse to it for a romantic date.

When it comes to romance, you will need to spend some money and choose a quality ski resort that is truly exciting, fun, and romantic.

What ski resort areas would you recommend? I have a short list of high-quality ski resort areas that you should evaluate and go to.

Here is my list:

Quality ski resort areas in the U.S.

  • Breckenridge

  • Vail

  • Aspen

  • Squaw Valley

Quality ski resort areas in Europe

  • Courchevel

  • Zermatt

  • Val D’Isere

  • Cortina d’Ampezzo

These eight ski resort areas would be excellent choices for creating a romantic mini-vacation in winter.

A romantic house in winter.

Step #2 – Choose a House, Cabin, or Hotel Room

I will always look for a house rental with a fireplace and a hot tub before I look at cabins or hotel rooms.

The whole point of this winter mini-vacation is to have a romantic fantasy!

Most cabins come with fireplaces, but they always have problems with the bathrooms, kitchens, and bedrooms. Not to mention, most cabins are not insulated, so you will freeze your ass off in the middle of the night.

Plenty of high-quality hotel rooms and spas are available at all of the eight locations above. However, the quality rooms come at a steep price.

Depending on your spouse’s likes and dislikes, you will need to gamble on which accommodation she would like better and make a reservation.

For house rentals, I recommend Googling house rentals in your ski resort area that have a fireplace and hot tub. For hotel rooms, go to and pick the best hotel and spa you can find.

A single red rose in winter.

Step #3-Surprise Your Spouse with Your Reservation

There is nothing like a romantic surprise, especially in winter!

My spouse was like a little girl on Christmas morning when I surprised her with a mini-vacation at a winter resort.

It changed her attitude entirely.

My wife typically hates winter weather unless it’s snowing on Christmas.

The surprise reservation took her from a winter depression to a happy woman with a big smile.

I bought a single yellow rose and a card and placed the reservations in the card envelope.

Be romantic in the delivery of your surprise reservation.

You will likely get your spouse to suck and fuck you until every last drop of cum has been extracted from your cock!

A couple kissing with heavy winter clothes.

Step #4-Make Certain You Take Winter Ski Clothes

So when I presented my wife with the reservations to Vail, she immediately became “super-excited” and went to her closet to evaluate what clothes she would wear on our winter mini-vacation.

Before your wife completely melts your credit card and buys all sorts of clothing, make sure she buys the following:

  • Thermal underwear

  • Insulated bib overalls

  • A waterproof jacket

  • Heavy duty socks

  • Ski gloves

  • Head beanie and face mask

  • Winter boots

  • A women’s waterproof dress pants and matching jacket for clubbing

Now we need to make sure your winter vacation will be remembered for the next ten years by packing some extra items in our suitcase.

A woman wearing sexy lingerie.

Step #5 – Bring Your Sex Toys, Lingerie, and Candles

You will need to pack your bags with some adult toys if you want to have fun on your winter adventure. {Affiliate Disclosure: We earn a small commission if you purchase through this link.}

You will need to bring the following:

  • Your wife’s favorite large vibrator

  • Your wife’s favorite small vibrator

  • A male vibrator

  • Sex lubricant

  • Feather tickler, handcuffs, S&M equipment, etc.

  • Several different lingerie outfits

  • Sex costumes (such as French maid, dark angel, cowboy, bunny, cop or fireman, preschool girl, cat woman, male stripper, etc.)

  • Swimsuits for the hot tub or the spa

  • And an adult sex board game

This list should help you and your spouse realize several different climatic fantasies while on your winter mini-vacation.

driving a car in winter

Step #6—Driving From the Airport to the House Rental

Once you rent a car, stop at a local Walmart and purchase the following items:

  • Firewood

  • Candles and matches

  • Olive oil and a plastic sheet (for slippery sex)

  • A cheap bed sheet—You will need to protect the couch when having sex in the living room.

  • Food for several days

That will take care of everything you need for your winter vacation. The house will have plates, utensils, and cookware, so need to bring or purchase these items.

Now it’s time to have fun.

A couple having hot, steamy sex.

Step #6 – Time to Have Hot, Steamy Sex

Once you get settled in the house, start a fire in the fireplace, break out some food and drinks, and get ready for naughty time!

I like to break out the wine, lie on the comforter in front of the fire, and watch the snowfall.

It’s breathtaking!

My wife will always dress up in the hottest lingerie outfit she can find.

On this romantic vacation, my wife wore a “cat woman” sex costume on the first night, with nylons and matching high-heel boots. See sex costume.

She walked into the living room and gave me a slow, strip torture to bend my mind!

She looked fantastic!

I have to admit; her sex costume gave me a big hard-on!

My wife had a whip, and I thought she was going to give me an S&M treatment! Thank God she didn’t because I am not into pain!

On the first night, I was also wearing my sex costume, called the dark angel. See costume.

We drank several glasses of wine to prepare our minds for hot, steamy sex. {Affiliate Disclosure: We earn a small commission if you purchase through this link.}

My wife started kissing me as I removed her sexy outfit. My wife could not keep her hands off my cock, and she went straight to my cock and started sucking my big cock.

My wife loves to stick her index finger up my ass while she sucks my big cock and pulls her finger out once she tastes pre-cum in her mouth.

My wife licked the tip of my cock down to the rim of my asshole, then swallowed my entire cock down her throat.

I was barely holding on!

She pulled her finger out of my ass, and I shot my load into her mouth, across her face, and on her titties.

My wife loves it when I get cum all over her hot body!

Now it was my turn. I laid my wife down on her back with her legs spread, and I started eating my wife’s pussy while my hands had a firm grasp of her perfect little tities.

I worked her clit until she started moaning with pleasure, and her pussy started moving side-to-side, and I knew she was about to cum.

So this is when I brought out the big gun, pulled out her big vibrator (used for muscle aches), and applied the monster vibrator to her clit and pussy lips. {Affiliate Disclosure: We earn a small commission if you purchase through this link.}

I could see the cum flowing out of my wife’s pussy. My wife was in girl heaven!

Time to muff-dive!

So I went back to eat my wife’s pussy, stuck my tongue as deep as I could into her pussy hole, and ate the cum flowing out of her sweet pussy!

My wife cummed hard!

This time, I decided to roll my wife over so she was on all fours, and I fucked her pussy slowly until I deposited a second load of hot cum in her wet pussy.

Then I left my cock in until I was sure every last drop of cum was deposited into her wet, hot pussy!

I pulled my cock out, stuck my fingers into my wife’s pussy, scooped out a large amount of cum deposit with my fingers, and then stuck my fingers with dripping, oozing cum into my wife’s mouth.

Then I Frenched kissed my wife, and we cuddled in front of the fireplace like newlyweds.

We woke up several hours later and then went to bed. The next morning, we got up, ate breakfast, and skied all day.

And every day, we played in the snow, fucked, played in the hot tub, went shopping, and partied our asses off at the local bars.